Bladur\'s Gate 3: Complete Romance Guide

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Bladur\'s Gate 3: Complete Romance Guide

Mar 16,25

Baldur's Gate 3 offers a diverse array of romance options, enriching the gameplay experience significantly. These relationships, whether long-term commitments or fleeting encounters, create some of the game's most memorable moments. This guide provides a walkthrough for each romance option, helping you navigate the complexities of relationships and avoid accidentally locking yourself out of your desired partner.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Understanding BG3 Romance:

It's crucial to understand that your character's gender doesn't restrict your romance options. Every romance is available regardless of your Tav's characteristics.

Baldur's Gate 3 presents two main types of romance: long-term relationships that develop over the course of the game, and shorter, more casual encounters. The path to romance varies greatly depending on the character; some involve extended courtship, while others offer a more immediate connection.

Furthermore, be aware that choices can lock you out of certain romances. Timing is key for some characters, and pursuing multiple romantic interests simultaneously might jeopardize your chances with specific individuals.

Most companion NPCs are romanceable. Entering a relationship significantly alters your experience with that companion, meaning you can't fully experience every romance in a single playthrough. Detailed guides for each romance are linked below.

All Romanceable Companions:

The following companions can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

All One-Night Stand Options:

These non-companion characters offer short-term romance options:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is a prominent romance option, often encountered early in the game. Building her approval rating opens up romantic possibilities. Romancing Shadowheart adds an intriguing layer to her storyline.

Shadowheart offers both long-term and short-term romance options, with opportunities in each act. Starting in Act I allows for a sustained relationship throughout the game.

Romancing Shadowheart:

Keep Shadowheart in your party (though not strictly required, it helps).
Prioritize boosting her approval early. Kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy are key. Supporting her against Lae'zel provides a significant boost.
Once approval is high in Act I, look for dialogue indicating a missed connection. Alternatively, wait for the camp party after rescuing Halsin. If you've shown interest, an exclamation mark will appear above her head. Accept her invitation to share a drink, choose her as your evening companion, and respond positively during the ensuing events.
In Act II, your choice between Selune and Shar doesn't necessarily end the romance. Support her new look if you choose Selune; a nighttime event awaits if you choose Shar (it may take several nights).
In Act III, complete Shadowheart's quest. This unlocks a final romantic event.

Shadowheart Romance Notes:

Under certain circumstances, romancing other characters might end your relationship with Shadowheart. The exact rules are unclear; if playing in Honor Mode, stick with her. Otherwise, save before exploring other romantic options.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, a wizard from Waterdeep, is receptive to a relationship. Romancing him adds depth to his crucial role in the game's plot.

Romancing Gale:

Rescue him from the portal.
Comply with his requests to consume magical items (up to three times in Act I).
Accept his invitation for a magic lesson in Act I and choose romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean, as this can close off future opportunities.
Be supportive during the cutscene with Elminster in Act I.
In Act III, keep him alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" before a long rest. Speak with Gale and choose the romantic dialogue options.

Gale Romance Notes:

Gale is not open to an open relationship and will react negatively to other romantic pursuits.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's wit and attitude make him a popular romance option. He's also one of the most open-minded partners.

Romancing Astarion:

Build his approval by adding him to your party and choosing self-serving options. He appreciates sarcasm and generally disapproves of selfless acts.
Letting him drink your blood boosts your relationship.
During the party, choose romantic dialogue options and allow him to bite you.
Show interest in his scars in Act I.
In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars.
In Act III, complete his quest for final romantic scenes.

Astarion Romance Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner. He's less likely to be upset by other romantic encounters.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach is a fan favorite but can be tricky to romance. She's sensitive about you being with others once you're in a relationship.

Romancing Karlach:

Take her side against the fake Paladins.
Collect Infernal Iron and have Dammon help her in Act I.
During the party, express your feelings and follow the romantic dialogue options. Throw water on her to cool her down before kissing her.
In Act II, use Infernal Iron to improve her condition.
In Act III, take her on a date.

Karlach Romance Notes:

She'll be upset if you sleep with others. You might be able to redeem yourself depending on the situation. Avoid being sarcastic or mean if she gets angry.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's conflicted nature makes his romance particularly engaging.

Romancing Wyll:

Build his approval by acting heroically and helping others.
Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings.
Choose romantic dialogue options during the party and subsequent encounters.
In Act III, help him save his father and complete his quest with Ansur.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel shows early interest, offering both short and long-term romance options.

Romancing Lae'zel:

Raise her approval by acting decisively and aggressively.
Initiate a romantic conversation in camp.
Maintain her approval for a nighttime encounter in Act II.
In Act III, her allegiance (Vlaakith or Orpheus) affects the outcome.

Lae'zel Romance Notes:

She's not open to multiple partners. Cheating will end the relationship.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin is a popular romance option.

Romancing Halsin:

Rescue him from the Goblin Camp.
Complete his quests in Act II.
Keep him in your party and build his approval through kindness and fairness.
Exhaust his dialogue options daily.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance involves siding with the goblins.

Romancing Minthara:

Side with Minthara against the Emerald Grove.
Express your allegiance and proceed with the romantic encounters.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

This section details the one-off romance options with Mizora, the Guardian/Emperor, the Drow Twins, Haarlep, and Naoise Nallinto. The specific steps for each are outlined, highlighting any necessary conditions or consequences.